Ever get the nagging feeling that the magic in your relationship is gone? He has changed and it’s not for the better. In the first few weeks he couldn’t get enough of you, but then suddenly the sizzle fizzles and suddenly the relationship isn’t what it used to be. The calls are fewer, the kisses aren’t as sweet as they used to be, and he’s out of touch most of the time.

Quite a familiar scene isn’t it? The first few weeks are always heaven on earth – you can’t seem to get enough of each other, and you really need to get in touch every chance you get. Then suddenly he starts withdrawing. It’s almost like the hunter was just in for the chase, and when the chase was over he began looking around for another hunt. It doesn’t always mean that the current competition is another woman. It could be his work, or his friends, or anything else under the sun – except you.

Whatever his reason may be, it only means one thing. The relationship is treading on very thin ice and it’s bound to break really soon if nothing is done to save it. It’s like a roller coaster ride with heartbreak as the sure ride stopper.

When a woman sees that this is where the relationship is headed, she usually does one of these three things:

1. She freaks out and creates a scene. By doing so, she makes it known that she isn’t happy with the way things are going in the relationship. The guy might suddenly change his ways and try to mend the relationship, but since it was a fussy girl that made him do it, he won’t be doing it because he wants to. It’s a temporary solution that won’t fix things for good.

2. She clams up, hoping that everything will be okay. News flash! It won’t. Things will just get worse unless the right thing is done immediately. If you can’t freak out, and if you can’t clam up either, what should you be doing?

3. She goes back to being the woman he fell madly in love with. And this is the best solution to the problem. Who were you when he fell for you? You have to admit that your relationship had changed down the line, which is why he changed as well.

Are you the same attractive woman who turned his world upside down? Remember that he was attracted to you, which was why he wanted to be with you all the time. Attraction was the very reason why he had to make you his. If this important foundation of your relationship suddenly goes missing, then so will everything else. It’s time to ask yourself if you took things for granted and stopped being the woman he fell in love with.

You know your man better than anyone else. There’s a lot of ways you can do to light the fire again and keep things burning. Try to look for things that can make him see you the same way he saw you when you were just hitting it off. When he remembers the girl he fell head-over-heels for, he’ll go back to becoming the guy you said “yes” to.

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