A committed relationship has no single definition, but for most couples who are involved in them the meaning of “committed” includes being exclusive to one another. Meaning: no outside love interests or sexual contact.

Of course, we all know that the implied promise of a committed relationship – whether it be a marriage or another type of long-term relationship – is broken every day by people everywhere. Somewhere, right now out there, there are men and women who are blatantly cheating on their spouses and significant others.

When you believe that your wife or girlfriend may be acting unfaithfully, it is a very hard thing to want to admit – even to yourself. In fact, many men know at some level that the woman in their life is not being faithful, but they do not want to admit it even to themselves.

But, there comes a point when you cannot hide it from yourself anymore. At some point, you want to get to the bottom of what may or may not really be going on with her. You owe it to yourself and to your own sense of dignity.

If you are interested in detecting female infidelity but are not sure what to look for, here are 5 signs that she may be cheating:

1. Something seems “off” in her behavior but you cannot put your finger on it:
When a person cheats, 99 times out of 100 they have a guilty conscience. Sure, they can justify their deeds to themselves in their mind, but they know full well that what they are doing is wrong. One common way for someone who is cheating to subconsciously express this feeling of guilt is to kind of “tune out” of the current moment they are in. This comes across to others as their being not fully present or acting inappropriately for the situation they are in.

2. You find that you cannot account for a large portion of her time:
Most guys know where their girlfriends are and what they are up to at all times. Not exactly, of course, but they have a pretty good idea. But, if you find that with your wife or girlfriend there are frequent times throughout the week when they seem unaccounted for, this could be a sign of infidelity.

3. She has suddenly taken up new interests or hobbies:
If your wife or girlfriend has suddenly started to express an interest in things that she never seemed to care about before, that is a possible sign that something is up. She may be getting introduced to new things by the other person or persons she is seeing (if she is indeed cheating, of course).

4. Her normal pattern of sexual behavior has changed:
If you notice that she has suddenly gotten more adventurous in bed, that could be a sign that something is amiss. Or, conversely, if she has completely and suddenly lost interest in sex with you, that is another possible sign.

5. She has trouble looking you in the eye:
Most of us are poor liars, and our eyes are windows to our souls. If you notice lately that she has been having trouble looking at you directly in the eye, she may be hiding something.

Needless to say, none of these signs by themselves is proof-positive that she is cheating on you. But, if you are already suspecting that something is a bit off (see #1) and you notice one or more of these other signs, it may be worth delving into deeper in order to find out what is going on. At least then you will know the truth, and if you choose you can do something about it.

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