What makes you afraid of approaching that beautiful woman?

Is it rejection?

That your not good enough for her?

Maybe a bunch of other little things?

In this article I’m going to go over a few things that most men think about before they approach a woman that creates fear and anxiety.

Thought Killer #1: The Perfect Woman

We have all heard the concept of putting a woman on a pedestal. But what does that really mean? It means you are hypnotizing yourself. Mind you, there is nothing wrong with that when it is done in the right way. In this case your doing it in the wrong way.

You start to create images in your mind of how wonderful and perfect this woman is. When you see things you start to believe those things. She becomes so perfect in your mind that there is no way that you would stand a chance with her. Your chances of now meeting this woman are spoiled because of these images you have put of her in your mind.

Thought Killer #2: She Must Be Stuck Up

She could be stuck up. But how do you really know? You haven’t met her yet.

You might even be the one who is stuck up. You might even be kind of creepy. Your the one staring at her without saying anything.

The point of approaching a woman is to see what she is like. Don’t make poor assumptions just so you can use it as an excuse to not approach her.

Thought Killer #3: She Is Way Too Hot

It’s great that she is a beautiful woman and great that you find her physically attractive.

What if I told you that woman you were afraid of and think is hot is really a man? Now what do you think of her?

As you can see she might not be who or what you originally think she is. You have to approach her and meet her to find out who she really is. Remember that all you know about a woman before you approach her is that you find her physically attractive. When you meet you may find her better or worse then what you originally thought.

Thought Killer #4: She Will Do Something To Embarrass Me

Most women will not do anything to embarrass you unless you do something to embarrass her first.

If you say something that is overly sexual or offensive then you can expect her to defend herself or be flat out scared of you.

The worst things that may happen to you is for her to turn her back, walk away, or just pretend she didn’t even hear you. Not really that bad when you think about it.

Thought Killer #5: Thinking About Sex

There are moments where thinking about sex isn’t bad. Before you approach probably isn’t one of the better times unless you got good self control.

If you approach a woman too sexually your going to send out some very creepy vibes. Focus your efforts on getting to know her. You can ramp up the sexual tension as things progress.

Conclusion

The moment these things start to cross your mind the less likely you are to bother approaching her. The key is to catch yourself before its too late.

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